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pluralso last night
was my weekly billiards league night
during which I scored
a perfect score of 80
[ten points per game]
[eight total games]
and socialized with
a variety of people
at one point
I was having a fairly lighthearted
but animated discussion with two females
about the male-female dynamic
in relationships
specifically with regard to control/power dynamics
one of the young ladies
was pressing the point
that most women have their men
wrapped around their finger
and making a fairly decent argument
to support her case
when she switched
to a new analogy
"Guy are so clueless, they never realize that their girlfriends play them like violins"
to which I replied
"Not at all, it is just that my girlfriends would rather play me like a flute"
was my weekly billiards league night
during which I scored
a perfect score of 80
[ten points per game]
[eight total games]
and socialized with
a variety of people
at one point
I was having a fairly lighthearted
but animated discussion with two females
about the male-female dynamic
in relationships
specifically with regard to control/power dynamics
one of the young ladies
was pressing the point
that most women have their men
wrapped around their finger
and making a fairly decent argument
to support her case
when she switched
to a new analogy
"Guy are so clueless, they never realize that their girlfriends play them like violins"
to which I replied
"Not at all, it is just that my girlfriends would rather play me like a flute"
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Date: 2003-11-04 05:17 pm (UTC)wrapped around their finger"
I am one of the women
who dont.
Mind you.
Its an open relationship - so there is no need.