In your boyfriend's case and not returning her email, I think he definitely did the right thing. The girl sounds like an emotional whirlpool, someone who will constantly drag him into her mess as long as he lets her. And I don't think trying to cut the friendship off to her face would do it. Eventually, she'd come back... phonecalls, visits, maybe an email... (like she did).
No, sometimes for your own sanity and mental well-being, you have to do what you have to do. This was one of those times, and I think he did what was best for all of you involved.
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Date: 2000-11-28 05:56 pm (UTC)No, sometimes for your own sanity and mental well-being, you have to do what you have to do. This was one of those times, and I think he did what was best for all of you involved.